0115-----Tension-------Tension is
very much talked of with reference to the man.
Almost everywhere, it is despised and many a pieces of advice come
our way. Most of the time it is heard of having it under control or life shall
be marred or full of problems and difficulties. Agreed that this must be under
control ,But this great power offered to us by Nature or God ,as per our
belief, is beyond any description and is purely personal. What strikes us is to
keep it under control and learn the lesson every time .The psychologists have
their own view points and define it accordingly. For a common man, this is a
stage in mind, where a lot of energy is released and wasted at a
particular point of time and the man becomes hopeless to get control on himself.
This situation generally occurs ,when a problem comes to us time and again and
when we fail to get the answer according to our likings or disliking, ,we are
tense. At that particular point of the time ,if somebody disturbs or interferes
in between ,the situation may go from worse to worst .One point to be noted is
basically related to a lot of energy released to our brain in such a way that
whatever answer or better to say solution may be ,becomes available
just like the flashlight of the camera or may be termed as glimpses after
glimpses. It is also seen that the brain works at the best or in other words,
it may be summarized that the Passenger train suddenly catch up the
speed of the Bullet train. The magical way to keep the tension under
control lies this way-
1------------Life is compromise. Something
in the life of everyone happens this way that other than repentance, nothing is
left .A woman having lost his own son in an accident may get no solace in life
other than having compromise to her fate or to succumbing to the dictates of
destiny.”What can not be cured is to be endured “is the only medicine of relief
to the occurrence of this nature.Having broken by heart at this situation and
tend to commit suicide is nothing but an act of cowardice. Each and every
living entity is doomed to suffer for the acts of the”Karma” as per the
Hindu mythology. Mahtama Budha’s advice to a bereaved woman for the
collection of fistful of mustard can be ,but a better example to the
human-beings, for no family in the world have been left unsuffered.Our duty
simply bounds us to involve such a person in a day to day work or
activities.The experience may vary and needs to be collected.
2-----------------This is the time when we
have to control ourselves and drinking water gulp by gulp is very relieving
.The point to be noted in the mind about tension is much or less related to the
finding of the answer according to what suits us or what we want the way ,it
might come.The changing time and situations always make us a
failure.Overthinking in between and pressing the mind for the solution is a
great exercise.I have heard of the officer who got the information about the
drug-smuggling on the ship,the raid under his command bore no fruits.When
returned home ,he got the information again that drugs being smuggled ; is
correct.In the mean time,his son came with a pipe and started making a
nuisanance .That gentleman took the pipe in his own hands and beat the
child.When the pipe was broken into two pieces,he got a clue and again
raided the Ship and drugs were found inside the pipes.The beating of the child
,though not supported,brought him a success.
3----------------In India,I have seen some
people,who are no more tense due to two things.Firstly,they become dependent on
the spiritualism and ease out the negativity and feel relaxed amidst the grave
problems too,secondly,at the time of tension,they go to a room and stroll from
hither to thither with a pan and paper kept nearby.Suddenly,they stop and write
whatever comes to them that time.After some times ,they check and read and try
to find the answer ..Most of the time they get the answer because of their
positivity.it may be tried too--------------------.
4--------------------When I was
student ,I heard of a foreigner who found a unique way of controlling his
tension,ke went inside the room,he took the pillow and started beating it with
cries after cries.After sometimes ,he was out of Tension zone.
The people find the different way of
coming out of it and using it according to their perception and innovation.The
great empowering talent bestowed upon the man is really unique,the more we
think of the problem,the more closer we reach to the solution .The scientific
discovery and conflict management,solution of the problems etc. emerge out of
this ;being properly handled and controlled.
5--Kabir das ji ,Hindi poet has very
clearly sung, **lqf[k;kW lc
lallkj gS][kkoS vkSj lkscs Anqf[k;kW nkl dchj gS]tkxs vkSj jkscs AA** (The whole world
is happy, for the people are happy over eating, drinking and sleeping, But the
poet feels unhappiness and sadness, because he weeps and remains asleep).Philosophically,
the message given here may be implied in
the different meanings .But the people ,crazy and having mania towards their
pursuits in lives are full of tension ,they are restless all the time and
remaining asleep makes them disturbed. On surface, we tend to believe that even our body
fails to take rest and sleep for less than 07-08 hours, it does not work
properly and tension is out of the physical exertion, though may be under
control. The body id body, it is also mechanical. Even non-lively particles or
items need rest .The clear-cut meaning is related to rest to the human machine.
6----The social writers like Galsworthy and Munshi Prem Chand
etc. have written a lot about the system prevailing in the world. The Law is
law,whether ignorance of law or failure to adjust amidst the System is also
full of tension to some people.From the time immemorial the mighty-people
,economically socially, politically, or power vested syndrome never care for
those doomed to suffer, otherwise the Bonded labour or child abuse]crime
against woman, or atrocities of other nature might not have been prevailing..The
unsafe future and thirst for bread always keep the person tense. Hkw[kS Hktu u gks; xkksikyk]ts ys;ksa viuh
dUBh ekykA** A(The hunger even compels the priest to give up
his job).The society and nation have to work here, where the all inclusive
contribution by the people is almost very
much needed .Merely giving lecture won’t serve the purpose and solely being dependent on the Govt.bore
the results ,but too late. The involvement in the work keeps us tension-free.
7-The impending danger whether amidst a tiger in the jungle
or foolish people ;fundamentalist or with handicapped ideology unnerves people
for sometime. The defending attitude makes the person strong and tension is
converted to win-win situation.
Whatever may be the thoughts, one prevailing and dominating
view is the thoughtful use of this great power by nature towards positive gains ; makes a difference in this
happy world for happy living---------!
