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------------------Your No-No and anger makes me think---

To say ‘No’ is a matter of intelligence and its immediate practical use. The person ahead may not get anything otherwise ,or get irritated is judged then and then. It involves the quick action expecting having no adverse repercussion in return.

For our weakness ,right from the time immemorial, has been to pat our back and averse to the ‘no’. Albarunii  also commented on this aspect that simply patting our back on every field has been our attributes. ’No’ does not mean the immediate rejection of what we feel should be or not. Rather it involves an intelligent answer where to say and how to say or why  is it essential ?. The whole framework seems present in the mind .It is generally seen that the whimsical attitude of the officers and the leaders brings forth ‘No’. In return, maximum time of the nation is merely consumed in flattery or psycho- fancy by the subordinates. The individual liking and disliking do not matter. Some intelligent officers simply say ‘No’ to express their dissatisfaction over anything ,whereas at the same time ,they calculate to what extent ,their subordinate may go with creativity and innovation. Their encouraging temperament also works, As a result, many a new and big project have become  a great success .Besides, The financial constraints or lack of political or leadership consent or assent is in the way can not be understood immediately until and unless spoken of. Use of ‘No’ simply to use administrative power is of no use ,provided the emergency does not prevail.

The administrative services have done the wonderful job since Independence, The national interest is safe and secure, besides creating the pressure on the state machinery to work with objects to gain. The success story and also the applause received at the hands of the world forum enhanced the power and position of the nation in almost every field; rather making India an emerging Super Power of the Future. But on the domestic front ,Every ‘No’ to the people ‘s resentment over non-solution of the problems for long ,specially traditional like poverty, unemployment, Population growth ,impending cultural crisis simply suppresses them for the time being ,Rather ,with fear to say, waiting for the sudden explosion, which we have to face tactfully.

Positivism is welcome ,but over- positivism takes time. Hence, use of ‘no’ shows the person courage and intelligence or managing the situation tactfully .Instead of getting irritated, cause and effect may be better utilized.